Tuesday, May 12, 1998

Joshua Bender - Earthly Body Located - May 12, 1998

Body of Yeshiva U. Student Is Found in Hudson River

Published: May 25, 1998

The body of a Yeshiva University sophomore who was missing since he left his dormitory room on May 12 was found in the Hudson River yesterday morning, the police said, but the circumstances surrounding his death remained a mystery.
The parents of the student, Joshua Bender, 19, were searching for him in Fort Tryon Park in upper Manhattan with hundreds of volunteers yesterday when word came that their son's body had been recovered a few hours earlier. He was discovered in the waters off 138th Street, just after 5 A.M., face down in the blue jeans, button-down plaid shirt and shoes he had been wearing when he vanished, along with his wallet and credit cards, the police said.
There were no signs of foul play or suicide, the authorities said. The identification was confirmed by dental X-rays, said Ellen Borakove, a spokeswoman for the Chief Medical Examiner. The family's objection to an autopsy on religious grounds was honored, however, and an external examination did not reveal the cause of death, she said.
City Councilman Noach Dear of Brooklyn, who had offered support during the disappearance, said yesterday that he had been told by the Police Department that detectives and the harbor unit would continue to investigate.
At their home in Fair Lawn, N.J., where more than a dozen members of the town's sizable Orthodox Jewish community gathered yesterday, Michael and Gitty Bender struggled to make sense of their son's death. ''If you'd have known who this boy was, what kind of a boy he was -- there are no words,'' Mrs. Bender said. ''We cry. What can we do?''
Mr. Bender's disappearance two days before his final examination in finance -- he had told his roommate he intended to meet classmates that night to study -- prompted prayer vigils by students, set off frantic searches by the police on both sides of the Hudson, and seized the attention of Orthodox Jews in New York, across the country, in Israel and on the Internet.
On Thursday, graduation day at the university, about 300 students, police officers and other volunteers searched the nearby Highbridge Park, overlooking the Harlem River, while others combed through Palisades Park, in New Jersey. Meanwhile, fliers seeking information were handed out by students across the city and as far away as Jerusalem, where Mr. Bender spent his freshman year studying Hebrew and the Talmud. His parents even offered a $25,000 reward for information leading to his discovery.
At the Yeshiva University campus along Amsterdam Avenue in Washington Heights yesterday, a few students were packing up their belongings when a security guard posted word of Mr. Bender's death.
''This is the way we start our vacations,'' said Avi Rosman, 20, a junior from Flushing who shared a statistics class with Mr. Bender and helped search Highbridge Park.
Those who knew him said Mr. Bender was a devout Jew, a dedicated student, a tireless volunteer and mature beyond his years. He was the kind who would shrink into the background rather than take credit, they said. Alone, he navigated the Internet; with friends, he bowled and went on skiing trips.
''They called him 'the natural,' '' his mother said. ''He had all these abilities.''
He spent much of his time working with the Fair Lawn Volunteer Ambulance Corps, his mother said, ferrying people to the hospital or bringing meals to patients. ''This is the kind of extracurricular things Orthodox Jewish boys do,'' she said.
Mrs. Bender said her son had chosen not to work with a Jewish ambulance corps because he wanted to help all people, not just his own. ''You know what the best part about him was?'' she said. ''It made no difference who you were, whether you were Jewish or not Jewish, black, white, pink or orange.''
''Joshie,'' as she called him, was studying finance at the university's Sy Syms School of Business. He had an internship lined up for this fall at Prudential Securities. This summer, Mrs. Bender said, she and her husband were encouraging their son to ''take it easy'' -- by signing up for a few classes at a New Jersey college rather than take a summer job.
Even his career ambitions had a righteous basis, Mrs. Bender said. At the family's Sabbath table two weeks ago, her son spoke up about his plans. ''All he wanted to do was become a big corporate financier,'' his mother said, ''and be able to give away a lot of money to charity.''

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